Dealmakers!

By request…and because it seems so fitting…

Dealmakers!: what makes the opposite sex attractive [aka what things do you like to find in girls/guys aka i like when boys clean their dishes…tweet]

**Updated: added other dealmakers and underlined all the girl responses so you could work on your ego. Thank M.Kishimoto for the extra ego.

1. Has Friends, environmentally conscious, and can make decisions –A.Gammelgard
2. When a girl — will play video games, watch Lord of the Rings, Star Wars #hugenerd -J.Clark
3. Active and can hold their own –K.Shudde
4. Good back muscles and big everywhere else  –K.Shudde (jk)

5. Funny. Can make me laugh and can laugh at himself #dealmaker. Egotistical, self centered, hair produts #dealbreaker –K.Klopman
6. Egotistical, self-centered, hair products #dealmaker Can make me laugh and can laugh at herself #dealbreaker -C.T.
7. Someone who cherishes the little things, loves to talk about big things and has a heart for everthing in-between #loveslife -B.Mangels
8. Scruff –M.Conroy

whats that deal breaker? let me know and im in!

9. Good whispering skills, but only after marriage -B.Moore
10. White t-shirt and jeans…ppaaahhh -K.Caruso
11. Likes sports…a little -K.Caruso
12. Baseball cap with ponytail out back -Z.Kebede

13. Is at least 5’5. I am only 5’8 and I like a girl to be around my height. -K.Kelley
14. I like cute girls. Competitive (a little competition is fun) and a sense of adventure. -S.Cox
15. Toenails? –C.Williams
16. Strong and independent — this is weird, I like to feel like a girl needs me, but at the same time I am attracted to women who are independent, strong willed and good thinkers. I think this shows in a variety of ways too; the way you spend time with your significant other, whether in groups or alone, and how comfortable you are with both. -Anonymous

17. I like drive, level headedness, thoughtfulness…hotness, humility, honesty, faithfulness… -S.Kiyoi
18. Little kids…he likes kids and kids like him –A.Gammelgard
19. Kind to everyone, and really, that means everyone. Even to those that bother you and annoy you. -S.Chin
20. Sharp wit – C.Trabucco
21. Adventurous, an extroverted sidekick –J.C.

from M.Kishimoto
22. she fights over the bill with you. guys love to pay for the check at the end of a date. some guys are cheap, some guys are broke, but regardless, guys love to pay for the check. i think this is somewhere in the y chromosome. but what makes a girl A LOT cooler is if she offers to pay for the date and then you go back and forth, “no no i got it. of course i’m not going to let you pay, stop stop… etc”. if they don’t, it’s not a dealbreaker, but it makes the girl seems a bit snippity and kinda eh.
23. she quotes a dope movie. these movies include but are not limited to: top gun, field of dreams, any star wars, cool runnings, white men can’t jump, any die hard, dumb and dumber, princess bride, braveheart, swingers, back to the future 1 ONLY, tommy boy etc. you kinda get the picture. basically any movie that guys either grew up on or just straight love. hahaha cool runnings might just be a personal pick in there.
24. she gives you a shoulder massage without asking. come on. who doesn’t like a shoulder massage? come on. and if it’s good? come on. and if you’re actually sore in the shoulders?!? COME ON. IT’S A DEAL! hahahahahaha maybe not, but massages are always nice and if she just gives you one without any question, it says something about her. that. she. is. AWESOME.

Most of these responses were given to me from my college friends via twitter.  So for them, sorry, its nothing really new, but to everyone else, enjoy.